It’s time to . . .

 “Stop Feeling Shame,

And Get In The Game!”

Does any of this sound familiar?

You see a girl you want to talk to, and you can’t talk, so you rationalize that she really wasn’t your type.

You’re home alone on a Friday night wishing you had a woman to cuddle up with.

Or, you and your friends are hanging out playing world of warcraft, or working on your cars, or watching a game, or playing foosball, because none of you have any girls.

Or you go to a party and just hang out in a safe corner watching girls pass by while other guys hook up with them.

Girls just don’t seem to like you very much. Or they like you in a he’s-such-a-nice-guy-friend kind of way. They don’t see you as a sexual being who could rock their world if they’d let you.

And you think, . . . there’s something wrong with you.

Deep down, you feel some SHAME, that you’re not the kind of man that women find attractive.

Shame, shame, shame, . . .

Maybe you should just crawl away to a safe corner of the planet and slither around the rest of your days with your tail between your legs.

Or, maybe . . .

Here’s the problem. It’s not that you’re a bad person. It’s not that you’re an inferior man. In fact, my guess is that you’re probably more educated than most — or at least smarter than most men.

And that’s the problem. While you were studying the world, and physics, and math, and philosophy, and theology, and biology, and computer programming, and cars, and mastering video games, . . .

. . . other guys were learning how to attract women.

You spent tens of thousands of dollars on college, thousands of dollars on computer systems and gaming systems, and thousands of hours learning these things.

Other guys spent thousands of dollars on their lifestyle, or on dating advice, and spent hundreds or thousands of hours thinking about how to make themselves more attractive to women — and PRACTICING.

You were led to believe that romance was just supposed to happen naturally. So you focused on other things.

The other guys didn’t get that memo, and spent time learning how to attract women.

So, what’s the real cause of your current sorry status among women?

It’s not that you’re an inferior man.

It’s simply . . .

Does a 6 year old kid feel shame for not knowing his multiplication table?

Do you feel shame when you get a new video game and can’t clear the first level on your first try?

Do you feel shame when you’re learning a new language and you can’t speak it very well after the first week?

No, you don’t feel shame.

What you do is,

Keep Learning,

and Keep Practicing.

That’s the key. Keep learning. Learn the theory of attraction. Learn techniques, and practice them. Be willing to make mistakes, and keep at it. You will get better.

In fact, . . .

. . . you’ll get good.

So set aside your shame.

With that said, there are two circumstances that should lead to shame:

1. You don’t take the first step and start learning how to attract women.

2. You don’t practice what you’re learning.

If you don’t do those things you should feel shame. You really aren’t worthy of having a woman if you aren’t willing to learn and practice.

But that’s not you. You’ve already shown that you’re willing to learn. You’ve taken the first steps already.

And now, . . .

I’m going to suggest a next step

for your education in women.

You really need to purchase a good general guide on attraction theory and techniques.Then you need to practice.

Then you need to find materials that fill in your gaps.

And then you need to practice some more.

If you spend 1/10 the money, and 1/10 the time you’ve spent on learning other things — often less important things — on learning how to attract women, you’ll get good. Very good.

Here’s my recommendation for a good general guide:

Guy Gets Girl. It’s a guide written by a woman for men. It’s a very good overview with some great specific techniques. If you read that book over the next two days, and practice over the next week, you’ll already see improvement. And you’ll start to see the point of learning and practicing.

Here’s the link:

http://www.alphamaleplanner.com/ggg/ggg.php

And keep reading the emails I send you. I’ll help guide you as you learn.

Sincerely,

T.P.

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And here’s the link to Guy Gets Girl again:

 http://www.alphamaleplanner.com/ggg/ggg.php