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Solid inner game with no routines — you’ll get laid like a rock star. Solid routines with poor inner game — you’ll be completely hit and miss.

I bought the DVD set immediately. This stuff speaks to me. I have experienced all of what they are talking about personally and know it to be truth. The problem is i couldnt control when i would be “present” or in the zone as i used to call it. I used to take drugs and try and get in the zone (which is bad!!!) I just hope this program helps get in the zone and stay in the zone.

I’m not in favor of hurting a woman just to get in her pants. So you want to be a little careful in this situation.

You could try to elicit the following value from her:

VALUE: She’s a woman who takes charge. When she’s interested in a guy, she makes sure that it happens one way or another.

That will take the pressure off you, and you can sit back a little and let her do part of the work in the seduction.

How do you get her to take this value as part of her self concept?

My favorite way is a variation of something I heard from Captain Jack.

I won’t go into too much detail, because I’m planning to write a post on this soon. But I’ll give you the nutshell version.

You’ll probably have to modify it to fit your situation, but it works like a charm.

Tell her that you are attracted to women of all races, but that over the last couple years you’ve given a slight edge to X-girls. (E.g., Asian, Black, Hispanic, White . . . just make sure it’s something she’s not).

Let her ask you why, or comment in some way. Make this a guided dialogue, not a long monologue.

Then tell her that a couple years back you met a woman who was X, and you were both really attracted to each other, but you were pretty sure it wouldn’t work out, because Y (E.g., she was still living with her parents, she was married, she lived 200 miles away — some sort of obstacle that’s NOT an obstacle with the woman you’re with now).

Then tell her how this X girl made sure it worked out. She would drive the 200 miles and make up some excuses for her husband, or, since you didn’t have a place to meet, she would take you on a secluded trail and find places to have sex with you. etc.

Then say, that girl made sure it happened. She did it in a classy way, but she made sure it happened. She was attracted to me, and didn’t let the obstacles get in the way.

Then say, so that’s why I give a little edge to X-girls. I guess i figure they’re all like that, and I think that’s really cool.

Then you can even ask something like, “do you think that’s silly?”

Then go into normal chit-chat again.

Now this is extremely devious, becaust it will bring out her competitive nature like crazy, and she will want to show that she’s not one to let obstacles get in the way either when she’s attracted to you.

Anyway, long winded response, and expect a post on this sometime soon.

Give it a shot.

T.P.

This is a classic case of her having the stronger frame. You want the kiss too much.

Try to find a way to frame her as wanting the kiss.

Try this: Lean part way for a kiss, wait for her to respond just a little, and then pull back, and say “wait, you’ve only earned 7 points tonight. If you want a kiss, you need 10″.

If she’s attracted to you, she’ll play along, and ask what it takes to get more points.

That’s where you want her. That’s proper framing.

T.P.