“Are You Trying To Seduce Me?”
 

Quick quiz: if a woman asks you that question, is it:

A) a bad sign. You’ve been caught.

B) a good sign.

The answer will dawn on you as you read this article.

When I was just learning how to attract and seduce intelligent, humorous, sexy, high-quality women, they would sometimes ask me, “Are you trying to seduce me?”

I can still remember the very first time a woman asked me that question. I panicked. “Oh shit! I’ve been too obvious. I’m busted.”

Things didn’t go very well from there.

Why not?

Well, it wasn’t because she asked the question (in fact, as you’ll see, it was a very positive sign).

And it wasn’t anything I did before she asked the question.

Here’s what it was . . .

Had I just said something a little cocky with a wink, that would have worked.

Had I looked her in the eye and sincerely asked, “would that be so bad?”, that would have worked.

But I acted like a naughty little boy who had been caught putting his hand in the cookie jar — like I wasn’t supposed to be doing what I was doing.

I acted like I had been trying to pull one over on her. Like I was trying to take advantage of her. And I’d been caught.

She picked up my frame instantly, and probably started feeling like I was trying to take advantage of her. Basically, she got creeped out, and started making excuses to leave.

If I’d only known how close I was to closing the deal . . . in a way that both she and I would have enjoyed . . . I would have handled things completely differently.

What I didn’t understand at the time was that . .

Almost any woman wants to be seduced. Get that into your head first. There’s a part of her that likes sex (probably more than you do, if you can imagine that). There’s a part of her that wants to be swept away and ravished by a man who excites her.

But she can’t say so.

Because there’s another part of her that has to answer to her friends.

The first thing you need to understand about a woman is that she’s deeply conflicted. She has a sex-crazed animal nature. And she has a culturally programmed nature.

Her animal nature wants you to seduce her. More to the point, her animal nature is extremely eager to get down and dirty and have sex with you right now.

And it desperately wants you to step up to the plate and be the man who can seduce her.

So, in a seduction context, . . .

Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying you should force yourself on her. DO NOT do that. “No” does not mean “yes”. But it does often mean “keep trying, you’re getting closer”.

Objections are part of the game. You need to handle objections, and keep moving forward.

And, don’t be fooled, she is probably enjoying the game. That’s why she’s there with you in an intimate context. She wants you to help her overcome the imagined objections of her friends. Your job is to give her all the excuses she needs.

If you give her confidence that you understand the game (without saying it explicitly), you will probably succeed.

If you give the impression you don’t understand the game, you will probably lose.

That’s why I failed the test on my first try. I sided with her culturally programmed self. I should have sided with her animal self.

Without saying it explicitly, I should have communicated that, yes, I was trying to seduce her, and that I knew how.

I should have communicated that I knew how the game was played, that I knew there would be some objections coming from her culturally programmed self, and that I knew how to overcome those objections so that we could both enjoy each other.

So, . . .

Well, there’s one guy who teaches the art of seduction better than any one else I know. He teaches men how to escalate physically in small steps to get a woman aroused.

He knows how the seduction game is played. And he can teach you.

Had I read his writings before that disaster I described above, it would not have been a disaster.

The guy’s name is Vin DiCarlo.

I think other guys might be able to teach you how to approach better, and others can teach you inner game better. But when it comes to SEDUCTION. I don’t think there’s anyone better.

Now, on his site, he says “FACT: 10% of the men sleep with 90% of the women . . .and they all have this little thing in common”

I’ve given you some hints about what that one little thing is. But I think you should get the whole story from Vin.

Just click this link:

Learn the art and science of seduction from one of the world’s greatest teachers. Get started today.

And start learning the secrets of one of the worlds best seduction teachers.

Take care.

Sincerely,

T.P.

P.S., As always, please feel free to leave respectful comments below. I will personally interact with many of the comments.