The Best Opening-Phase

Trigger Banter Flirt Routine I Know

OK, I wasn’t going to share this.  I’m usually torn on things like this.  I want to share very good flirting lines and tips with you to help you trigger better reactions from women.  But I’m also hesitant to share my very very best stuff, because I don’t want women to hear my best lines everywhere they go. And besides, I’m teaching you the best system in the world for coming up with your own great flirting lines.

Anyway, I’m going to share my most reliable piece of opening-phase banter with you today.

Here’s why:

1.  I don’t think women will get tired of this one even if every guy in the world winds up using it.

2.  I’ve actually seen another dating teacher teach this one, so the cat’s already out of the bag a little bit.

You might even use this one already. Probably not, though.

I’ll get to it in a minute, but first, I’m sure you’ve heard that you should avoid “ordinary boring conversational topics”.

I have a differnent view.  I think . . .

You can use ordinary boring

conversational topics

to your advantage.

If you do it right.

What are the so-called “boring questions”? 

What do you do?

Are you in school?

What’s your major?

Do you have kids?

Where did you grow up?

How long have you lived here?

Do you live around here?

Can those questions lead to a dead conversation?  Yes.  Do they have to?  No.

The key is this:

BORING QUESTION RULE:  If you ask a “boring question”, you must PLAY with her answer.

And, . . .

That gets me back to my

favorite opening banter line:

I will often, very early in the conversation, ask a woman what she does for a living, or, if she’s in school, I’ll ask her what she’s studying. 

And then . . .

I play with her answer.

If she says she’s studying radiology, I’ll say “Oh, good, so if I were to break my leg right now, you’d totally help me out.  You probably have X-ray equipment right in your backpack, right?”

She laughs.  She feels like you value her for something other than her looks.  And you frame the interaction as one of her being ready to SERVE you in some way.

Give me another one.  Just shout it out.

HER: “I’m a massage therapist”.

ME: “Oh, good, so if I suddenly get the worst cramp ever in my hand, you’d totally be able to heal me, right?”

Another one . . .

HER: “I walk dogs for a living”.

ME: “Shoot, I was going to bring my dog to the coffee shop today, but decided not to.  You would have totally walked my dog all over the coffee shop, right?”

For some reason the word “totally” seem to work in this context.  It conveys a kind of hype and enthusiasm that tells her that you’re doing some fun role-playing.

I totally don’t usually talk like that.

It also helps to not go too pervy here.  Notice with the massage therapist I had a “hand cramp” that she could help me with.  I wasn’t making jokes about “happy endings”.

Anyway, give that a shot the next time you talk with a woman.  Use it even on women you’re not attracted to — just to get the practice in.  I even use it with little old ladies.  “My goodness, I can tell, if you were my Grandma, you would totally bake me cookies every day, even though my mommy told you not to.”  They all love it!

If you want more advice about triggering good reactions from women, and you haven’t gotten my book yet, here’s a link to the page where I offer it at a discount:

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Take care.

Sincerely,

T.P.

P.S. Feel free to comment on this line, or share your success stories using lines like this.