Comments on: Positive Mental Attitude And Attraction

By: Bill

Bill — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 20:41:13 +0000

Expecting to fail takes away excitement and anxiety and makes it easier to frame what you say the proper way and use the proper tone and body language. I’ve noticed a difference personally.

By: Admin

Admin — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:38:16 +0000

Hey “This Guy”.

You have a response log in your pocket? I was wondering what kind of log that was

Seriously though, I would just keep my response journal at home. It’s better to just brainstorm after you get home. If you do that faithfully, you’ll eventually remember your best lines when you need them. (see Flirting Deconstructed for details about how to brainstorm and journal).

And

No. And it should make things easier if you already know someone in the set. You would probably use a different approach in that situation.

By: sdennec

sdennec — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:10:24 +0000

finaly, somebody shares the same ideas is do. Nomatter what situation you are going into, as long as you expect to fail, or expect the worst then, to me, things always seem to end up better. and if they are the worst they could be your prepared and you adjust your tactics.

By: This Guy

This Guy — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 22:16:23 +0000

Would it help to keep a “response log” in your pocket, or something like that? And is it required to have never met anyone from these “sets”?

By: Alex

Alex — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 03:06:23 +0000

PS my ex also figured out if the guys would reword her idea and feed it back to her like it was theirs and it made her light up like the sun that the guy felt and knew the same things she did- when they really didn’t!!! Sly muth***ers. I tried that too and it worked after a couple of tries. But chics can sense when you don’t know shit 2 so watch what you say and listen carefully then puke it back at em.

By: Alex

Alex — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 03:01:06 +0000

Yeah, my recent experience was…”You’re not strong enough for me.” I did evrything for her. SHe treated me like a dog lower than dirt! So, After we broke up, we kept talking…Lo and be hold she fell for every dude telling her they would get her what she wanted, ended up being cheap skates blowing smoke up her ass and getting the tap of their lifetime (shes a freak). So, I asked her,” DO you like to be used?” She thought for a bit and said,” I think so!?” Then she said,” They all said the right things and acted like they were gonna give everything but never did.” Essentially they were talking shit, getting their nut off and throwing her a bone ( a little drink here and there). Never giving what she wanted. One last thing I learned… they treated her the way she wanted in bed.(whips chains, whipping, etc.) Took on like if they were in control when they really weren’t. When I started with the same behavior. It worked with her and other chics too. I on the ohter hand don’t risk myself. So, I don’t lay up with them. They still call me. When I see them they give me the I wanna f&(k you – now! look. They get turned off when I don’t advance. Now, I will start talking in sexual banter. Then start putting in the …let’s do it hints. Soon enough I’ll have another steady hot femme I’m pokin. Friends first. Pork it later.

By: Admin

Admin — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 00:22:55 +0000

Hi i.ali222

No, I don’t mean that you should have a “negative” attitude with the girl. Of course you should present a positive outlook — though teasing her is still a good idea from time to time.

I really mean that you shouldn’t entertain an overly optimistic sense of your chances of hooking your sets. That’s all.

Your attitude would then be positive in the sense of presenting a happy well-adjusted face to the girl, but it wouldn’t be overly positive in the sense of thinking you couldn’t fail.

T.P.

By: i.ali222@yahoo.co.uk

i.ali222@yahoo.co.uk — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 00:12:58 +0000

so it means we should give her bit harder time …..like not say yes to her wishes every time, small fights with her, unavailable to her desires do u think it could be attractive//// thnx any way……..

TP very good advices from you .really appreciate

By: T.P.

T.P. — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 23:01:49 +0000

Hey Mike.

You have a point. I’m using “fail” in a technical sense here to just refer to whether you meet your main goal or not.

I’m not saying that you have to attach a lot of meaning or emotional energy to the “failure”.

And you’re absolutely right. One of the main pillars of “inner game” is to “let go” of your outcome, and make it so it doesn’t mean that much to you.

Good comment!

T.P.

By: Mike

Mike — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 22:32:04 +0000

I won’t say the phrase is “expect TO FAIL”.
Not so, the idea should be

“I’m gonna have fun, if it works, good for me, if it doesn’t, 6 million more girls to try” . Loosing 1girl doesn’t make u A LOSER, it’s how you deal with that. The girls may sense your “Alphaness” n just come back realizing their mistake

N yea, learn from each interaction, build on it and move on.

Deuces!
Props T.P, gr8 work.