Hey all.

Tyler here.

From time to time I want to share some fantastic flirting lines with you.

Your flirting lines always have to match three things: 1) the situation you’re in, 2) the girl you’re with, and 3) your own personality.

The best way to get a feel for effective flirting is 1) understand the principles behind good flirting, and 2) to see lots of good examples.

Some of the examples I present will be lines I came up with, and some will come from other guys — mostly from the trigger banter generator tool — more on that later.

For each line, I’ll tell you the situation, and the response. Then I’ll discuss why it works.

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SITUATION 1
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The situation for the first line is this: You’re with a girl, and she asks if you’re a “player”.

Your response: I’m not a player, baby. I’m the coach.

Discussion: most guys will freeze up at this point. The truth is, when you’re with an attractive woman, you ARE trying to game her. And you know it. So when she asks if you’re a player, it can be easy to freeze up, as if you’ve been caught.

This reply shows that you’re comfortable and very knowledgeable about women. It’s also funny, which is a plus.

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Situation 2
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Situation: You’re sitting near an attractive woman at a coffee shop, and she gets up to go to the bathroom. And before she leaves, she asks you to watch her stuff for her.

Reply: Watch your stuff? Why? Does it do tricks?

Discussion: This is just a playful way to start a little banter. If she’s game, she’ll play along and make something up. More importantly, it subcommunicates the idea that you’re not her subordinate. When she asks you to watch her stuff, she’s asking you to do something for her. Your reply tells her that in order for you to want to watch her stuff, she has to give you a reason that benefits YOU. It shifts the power balance back in your favor in a subtle and playful way.
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Those are just two of the hundreds of lines in the Flirting Tool. The Flirting Tool is available for FREE for everyone who gets Flirting Deconstructed (which explains the principles behind good flirting).

Take care,

T.P.

P.S., I’d love your thoughts on these two flirt lines. I think they’re hilarious (and effective), but I want to know what you think. And if you think you can tweak them to make them even better, show us your stuff. Post your comments below.