Hey all.

Tyler here again.

I’ve got a couple more flirting lines to share with you.

Remember, your flirting lines should fit together with three things: 1) the situation you’re in, 2) the girl you’re with, and 3) your own personality.

The best way to get a feel for effective flirting is 1) understand the principles behind good flirting, and 2) to see lots of good examples.

Well, I’ve got two more examples for you, and, just like last time, for each line, I’ll tell you the situation, and the response. Then I’ll discuss why it works.

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SITUATION 1
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The situation for the first line is this: You’re with a girl, and she says she has a boyfriend.

Your response: Well, he called in sick. I’m his replacement. (credit brass)

Discussion: most guys give up when a girl says she has a boyfriend. While I’m not a fan of messing up a good relationship, I’m also not a fan of giving up the first time a girl “claims” to have a boyfriend. There are many possibilities. 1) She doesn’t have a boyfriend, but doesn’t want to look desperate, so she claims to have a boyfriend. 2) She’s tired of her boyfriend, and wants to have fun with you, and she just wants to get her situation out in the open. Most girls don’t stay with the same boyfriend forever, and they almost never give up an old boyfriend without securing a new one first. That’s just the way it works, so maybe she’s ready to switch. 3) She does have a boyfriend, and she’s madly in love with him. If this is the case, I would advise you to move on. There are so many less complicated and less dangerous situations out there to pursue. There’s no need to go there simply to stroke your ego. Plus, your chances will be much less anyway.

Since you don’t know what her real situation is, you might as well stay in there with something funny and warmly dominant, and see how she reacts. If she starts flirting back, you’ll know the boyfriend either isn’t real, or doesn’t have her heart. And, if she’s committed and happy, she’ll let you know.

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Situation 2
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Situation: You’re talking with a girl and she says something that can be interpreted as bragging.

Reply: I think you just made that up to impress me. But don’t worry. I won’t tell anyone. (credit da man)

Discussion: This line might not strike you as anything special, but, I’m here to tell you that if you really understand the structure of good flirting, this line is doing all the right things.

First, the frame is great. You’re interpreting her bragging as an attempt to impress you. When someone brags, they’re making a claim to high status. That can be dangerous for you if you validate her for it too much. But, with this line, you’re interpreting her high status signal as her attempt to measure up to your assumed high status — she’s trying to impress you.

Second, the line: “But don’t worry. I wont’ tell anyone” signals that you aren’t judgmental and can keep secrets. That can put a girl greatly at ease. If she has any naughty thoughts about what she wants to do with you later, it basically gives her permission and assures her that you won’t tell anyone. I go into more detail about this in my new book Avatar Seduction, but I think you can see the point here.

Third, it’s kind of humorous, and invites role playing. Always a good thing.
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Those are just two more of the hundreds of lines in the Flirting Tool. Again, the Flirting Tool is available for FREE for everyone who gets Flirting Deconstructed (which explains the principles behind good flirting).

Take care,

T.P.

P.S., I’d love your thoughts on these two flirt lines. I think they’re very good, but I want to know what you think. And if you think you can tweak them to make them even better, show us your stuff. Post your comments below.