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		<title>Avatar Seduction &#8212; how to seduce a woman</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 18:23:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What would you do if you were suddenly dropped into a foreign world, where no one knows you? They all speak English (or whatever your first language happens to be), but you soon come to realize they know nothing of your world, and there’s absolutely no way they can.  Think of it as a different [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What would you do if you were suddenly dropped into a foreign world, where no one knows you?</p>
<p>They all speak English (or whatever your first language happens to be), but you soon come to realize they know nothing of your world, and there’s absolutely no way they can.  Think of it as a different galaxy, or a different dimension.</p>
<p>Since there’s no contact between this new world, and your old world, they don’t know how you acted in your old world. They don’t know your old personality. They don’t know the principles and values you subscribed to in the old world.</p>
<p>With these people, you have a completely fresh start – <strong>a blank slate on which to write your own <span style="text-decoration: underline;">new </span>personality.</strong></p>
<p>What would you do?</p>
<p>Would you be the same person you are in this world?  Would you try to live the same way?  Would you hold the same values?  Or would you try to live life in a whole new way, casting aside all the baggage that plagues you in this world?</p>
<p>I have a guess what you’d do.</p>
<p>It’s probably the same thing I’d do.</p>
<p>I think you’d largely start over, and create the kind of life you wish you could live in this world. Freed from the social pressure to live the way others in this world expect you to live, you’d create a whole new life.</p>
<p>The truth of the matter is, we all hold many of the values we hold because we are social animals, and other people expect us to live in ways that make <em>them</em> comfortable.</p>
<p>And the truth is, . . .</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Many of the values we think we subscribe to </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>would not survive teleportation to a parallel universe.</strong></p>
<p>The same is true for women.</p>
<p>We’re going to make use of that fact to seduce women who want to be seduced.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s coming soon in my new book.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve actually been writing it off and on for the last couple months, and the wait is almost over.</p>
<p>Writing the book has really tightened up my game, and I seriously haven&#8217;t missed for 3 months &#8212; once the girl is attracted and in conversation, that is.  I&#8217;m still getting maybe only one in two approaches to hook enough to give contact info, and maybe half of those to have enough interest to meet for coffee later.  But once they meet with me, it&#8217;s OVER.  Seriously, not one miss in December and January.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll keep you posted. It&#8217;s coming soon.  And I&#8217;ll keep it affordable.  Maybe a bit more than the flirting book, but not a budget buster by any means.</p>
<p>Tyler.</p>
<p>P.S., feel free to share your thoughts.  Respectful comments will be posted. Disrespectful comments won&#8217;t.</p>
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		<title>Guys, Shame, and Attracting Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 20:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s time to . . .  &#8220;Stop Feeling Shame, And Get In The Game!&#8221; Does any of this sound familiar? You see a girl you want to talk to, and you can&#8217;t talk, so you rationalize that she really wasn&#8217;t your type. You&#8217;re home alone on a Friday night wishing you had a woman to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s time to . . . </p>
<p align="center"> <strong><span style="font-size: large;">&#8220;Stop Feeling Shame, </span></strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong><span style="font-size: large;">And Get In The Game!&#8221;</span></strong></p>
<p>Does any of this sound familiar?</p>
<p>You see a girl you want to talk to, and you can&#8217;t talk, so you rationalize that she really wasn&#8217;t your type.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re home alone on a Friday night wishing you had a woman to cuddle up with.</p>
<p>Or, you and your friends are hanging out playing world of warcraft, or working on your cars, or watching a game, or playing foosball, because none of you have any girls.</p>
<p>Or you go to a party and just hang out in a safe corner watching girls pass by while other guys hook up with them.</p>
<p>Girls just don&#8217;t seem to like you very much. Or they like you in a he&#8217;s-such-a-nice-guy-friend kind of way. They don&#8217;t see you as a sexual being who could rock their world if they&#8217;d let you.</p>
<p>And you think, . . . there&#8217;s something wrong with you.</p>
<p>Deep down, you feel some SHAME, that you&#8217;re not the kind of man that women find attractive.</p>
<p>Shame, shame, shame, . . .</p>
<p>Maybe you should just crawl away to a safe corner of the planet and slither around the rest of your days with your tail between your legs.</p>
<p>Or, maybe . . .</p>
<p><strong></p>
<p align="center">It&#8217;s time to reject the</p>
<p align="center">shame, and get to work</p>
<p></strong></p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the problem. It&#8217;s not that you&#8217;re a bad person. It&#8217;s not that you&#8217;re an inferior man. In fact, my guess is that you&#8217;re probably more educated than most &#8212; or at least smarter than most men.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s the problem. While you were studying the world, and physics, and math, and philosophy, and theology, and biology, and computer programming, and cars, and mastering video games, . . .</p>
<p>. . . other guys were learning how to attract women.</p>
<p>You spent tens of thousands of dollars on college, thousands of dollars on computer systems and gaming systems, and thousands of hours learning these things.</p>
<p>Other guys spent thousands of dollars on their lifestyle, or on dating advice, and spent hundreds or thousands of hours thinking about how to make themselves more attractive to women &#8212; and PRACTICING.</p>
<p>You were led to believe that romance was just supposed to happen naturally. So you focused on other things.</p>
<p>The other guys didn&#8217;t get that memo, and spent time learning how to attract women.</p>
<p>So, what&#8217;s the real cause of your current sorry status among women?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not that you&#8217;re an inferior man.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s simply . . .</p>
<p><strong></p>
<p align="center">You don&#8217;t really know what</p>
<p align="center">you&#8217;re doing &#8212; and that&#8217;s OK,</p>
<p align="center">because we can fix that.</p>
<p></strong></p>
<p>Does a 6 year old kid feel shame for not knowing his multiplication table?</p>
<p>Do you feel shame when you get a new video game and can&#8217;t clear the first level on your first try?</p>
<p>Do you feel shame when you&#8217;re learning a new language and you can&#8217;t speak it very well after the first week?</p>
<p>No, you don&#8217;t feel shame.</p>
<p>What you do is,</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Keep Learning,</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>and Keep Practicing.</strong></p>
<p>That&#8217;s the key. Keep learning. Learn the theory of attraction. Learn techniques, and practice them. Be willing to make mistakes, and keep at it. You will get better.</p>
<p>In fact, . . .</p>
<p>. . . you&#8217;ll get good.</p>
<p>So set aside your shame.</p>
<p>With that said, there are two circumstances that should lead to shame:</p>
<p>1. You don&#8217;t take the first step and start learning how to attract women.</p>
<p>2. You don&#8217;t practice what you&#8217;re learning.</p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t do those things you should feel shame. You really aren&#8217;t worthy of having a woman if you aren&#8217;t willing to learn and practice.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s not you. You&#8217;ve already shown that you&#8217;re willing to learn. You&#8217;ve taken the first steps already.</p>
<p>And now, . . .</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>I&#8217;m going to suggest a next step</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>for your education in women.</strong></p>
<p>You really need to purchase a good general guide on attraction theory and techniques.Then you need to practice.</p>
<p>Then you need to find materials that fill in your gaps.</p>
<p>And then you need to practice some more.</p>
<p>If you spend 1/10 the money, and 1/10 the time you&#8217;ve spent on learning other things &#8212; often less important things &#8212; on learning how to attract women, you&#8217;ll get good. Very good.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s my recommendation for a good general guide:</p>
<p>Guy Gets Girl. It&#8217;s a guide written by a woman for men. It&#8217;s a very good overview with some great specific techniques. If you read that book over the next two days, and practice over the next week, you&#8217;ll already see improvement. And you&#8217;ll start to see the point of learning and practicing.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the link:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.alphamaleplanner.com/ggg/ggg.php">http://www.alphamaleplanner.com/ggg/ggg.php</a></p>
<p>And keep reading the emails I send you. I&#8217;ll help guide you as you learn.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>T.P.</p>
<p>P.S. Please feel free to leave a respectful comment to this post.</p>
<p>And here&#8217;s the link to Guy Gets Girl again:</p>
<p> <a href="http://www.alphamaleplanner.com/ggg/ggg.php">http://www.alphamaleplanner.com/ggg/ggg.php</a></p>
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