Do You Accidentally Trigger BAD Reactions From Women?
"Here's The Ultimate Flirting Guide That Shows You How To Stop Begging Her To Reject You, And Start Flirting Like A Man Who Knows What He's Doing
FROM: Tyler Paxon, PhD
DATE: Friday, May 24, 2013
Have you ever found yourself in an enjoyable conversation with an attractive woman, thinking there was a chance it might lead to something good, and then suddenly she says something to make it clear that she's not interested?
She tries to be subtle, because she doesn't want to humiliate you, but it still feels like she's artfully slid a long knife in your gut and twisted it. All you want to do is slip away in the shadows with your tail between your legs, hoping no one else noticed what just happened.
Love can be a brutal game.
If you're like most guys, you're not trying to trigger bad reactions. All you want is to find a nice girl to cuddle up with at night. Someone who cares about you. Maybe someone to settle down with and have kids with.
No doubt you're a great guy. A real "catch". Still, it seems like it's just way more difficult than it should be to attract a woman who's right for you.
Sometimes you hover, linger, and stall, and end up not talking to the girl you're interested in.
And sometimes you try to flirt or chit-chat, and it all comes out wrong and retarded.
And, of course, you always know what you SHOULD have said -- 30 seconds after it's too late.
If you're tired of getting bad reactions from women, and want to start sparking attraction instead, mark my words . . . I'm going to solve your problems forever right here today.
Now, on the last page,
I promised to share an important flirting tip.
This tip alone can help you get on the right track today.
It involves something most men do to trigger a bad reaction in women. And they probably don't even know they do it.
It remains hidden, because women won't tell you they're having a bad reaction. In fact, they may not even know they are having a bad reaction. In fact, they might even seem to give you a good reaction.
Chances are, YOU have this bad habit. And you should break it. The tip I want to share with you is this:
Don't use self-deprecating humor when you flirt.
Here's what I mean . . .
Suppose you bend down to tie your shoe, and an attractive woman just happens to be sitting nearby.
You could look up at her and say:
"Oh, don'tworry, I'm not proposing."
Imagine saying that.
And imagine how it would sound to her ears.
It would be funny. It reframes the situation in a fun way. She'd probably smile -- and maybe even laugh a little.
But she probably wouldn't be attracted.
And that's because the frame is all wrong. The best way for her to interpret your response puts you in the role of proposing to a woman who would reject you.
That's not good.
It might be funny.
But it's not good.
Here's what you might say instead:
"Now, don'tgetexcited. I'm not proposing."
Imagine how that would come across.
Do you see why that's better? Do you see why it's more likely to generate attraction? It's all about the frame it sets.
The only way for her to interpret your response puts her in the role of hoping that you'll propose to her.
That makes you the one she's trying to possess.
That's what you want.
She'll smile. She might laugh a little. And she'll probably be a little attracted to you.
Now you have to do it playfully, or she might not play along. But if you do it right it's a great piece of banter.
I want you to be able to stop triggering bad reactions from women and start triggering good reactions. So let me ask you another question, . . .
What Are Women Looking For?
Did you know that I have an honest-to-goodness PhD from a major research university.
I'm not saying this to impress you. I'm saying this only so you'll know I've done my research.
I've asked many women this question: "What do you want in a man?" Here are the top 4 things (in no particular order):
You are a passionate person. What you want, you want deeply. When you want her, you want her fully. Deep down a woman wants a man who can't help loving her (and her children ultimately). So she wants to know you are moved by passion, and not just logic.
You make your own decisions. You don't wait for the approval of your friends, or worry needlessly about what others think of the things you do. You are the captain of your own fate. Women HATE it when a guy doesn't take charge and direct the situation. You might think women are control freaks, but that's probably just because you've always waited for them to take control. Start taking charge and making the decisions in your life.
You boldly pursue the things you want. You are borderline impulsive -- especially about the "little things". Nothing turns a woman off more than a guy who will debate endlessly whether to get the "deluxe car wash" for $2 more. If you want it, get it. Be decisive.
You know how to flirt. This shows you are intelligent and good with words and people.
Now ask yourself, right now: what's it like to be this kind of person?
Imagine . . . You are decisive. You take bold action. You are passionate. And you are good at flirting.
Doesn't it just feel natural for a woman to be attracted to you?
Here's the good news:
You CAN train yourself to be that man. And, believe it or not, it all starts with your ability to flirt well.
Now STOP for a minute . . .
I'm Not Just Trying To Inform You. I'm Hoping To Transform You
Women I've talked to WISH more men knew how to spark attraction in them. They wish more men really knew how to flirt and banter well.
And the good news is that YOU can become the man who fulfills a woman's deepest wishes.
The tip I just gave you is a step in the right direction.
But, . . . in order to be REALLY good at flirting you need more than just a good tip or two.
You need a systematic understanding of how flirting works deep down.
And you need a step-by-step plan for getting better at flirting.
And there's only one place in the whole world to get these things together in one nice little package.
It can only be found in the eBook, "Flirting Deconstructed".
Now, rest assured . . .
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"Flirting Deconstructed" was written by an evolutionary psychologist (with a real Ph.D.) who understands the psychology of influence, and has studied the methods of the world's leading pickup artists for years.
This is NOT the fluffy Cosmo-style advice you typically see on flirting. This is the real deal. It's based on science. And you will receive a real, systematicmethod for building better banter.
The type of banter is called "Trigger Banter"™. Flirting Deconstructed explains how it works, and shows you, step by step, how to create your own perfectly effective trigger banter for pretty much any situation you could ever encounter.
If you're like most men, you can flirt great one day, and not so well another. And THAT can be frustrating. That's why one of the first guys to use Flirting Deconstructed said, . . .
"FINALLY there is an actual STRATEGY we can use, rather than relying on intuition!"
Flirting Deconstructed helps you get very good at flirting very quickly and very systematically. And actually, you get two kinds of strategies in Flirting Deconstructed. There's a "micro" strategy for creating individual banter lines. And there's a "macro" strategy for developing your repertoire over time.
Here's some of what you'll know after reading FlirtingDeconstructed:
How to stop triggering BAD reactions in women.
How to start triggering GOOD reactions in women.
A way to overcome problems APPROACHING women or "OPENING sets": Trigger Banter is an easy, fresh, attractive way to start conversations with women you don't even know.
The 5 steps you absolutely must take if you want to construct the best banter for any situation. Plus an optional step that you'll probably want to do as well. (from pages 7-14)
The scientific keys to naturally generate attraction in women without taking any crazy risks. (from pages 4-7)
The one attitude you absolutely must convey to bring a sense of curiosity into her mind -- it won't matter how good your banter is if you don't do this. (from page 6)
WARNING: Don't even think about being funny until you read this (from pages 4-5)
62 situations you can flirt in: And, basically, how to flirt in ANY situation. (You can flirt way more often than you think). (from pages 8-9)
Being tongue-tied is 100% avoidable if you know this secret . . . (from pages 14-16)
The fable of Jack-in-the-Box and Burger King, and knowing how it can save you from embarrassing yourself. (from pages 6,7)
Urban Legend: women love jerks. Wrong! Even the most hard-core ladies men will tell you that you can't attract as many women unless you tone down your arrogance with THIS. (from pages 4,5)
Amidst all the high-priced dating advice on the market, there is a simple way to train yourself to attract and seduce women for a fraction of the price. (from page 17)
KEY: It's not just what you say, but how she interprets it that makes the difference between getting the girl and not. Control her interpretations, and you control her attraction. THIS is how to do it right. (from pages 4-6)
If you don't know what "Trigger Banter" is, you should read this book, regardless of how good at flirting you think you are.
Imagine . . .
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You will be able to generate high energy attraction in women several times a day -- just while you're going about your business.
You're already receiving "14 Effective Flirting Lines" for free.
And now you can get the book, "Flirting Deconstructed" as well. Flirting Deconstructed will explain what trigger banter is. And, it will give you a step-by-step procedure for creating it, and for developing your repertoire over time.
And that will turn you into the kind of man who can spark attraction in women wherever you go.
How Can You Know If
This Program Is For You?
If your name is 'Matthew McConaughey' or 'Denzel Washington', you probably don't need Flirting Deconstructed.
If you never trigger bad reactions from women, and always trigger good reactions from women, you might not need Flirting Deconstructed.
On the other hand, there are things most men struggle when flirting, and they don't usually get better unless you know how to fix them . . .
Read through the following list, and CHECK OFF all the things that you can relate to.
If you find that you have experienced ANY ONE of these problems, I highly recommend you grab Flirting Deconstructed now.
AND, . . . if you read through the list, and find that you have experienced more than one of these problems, you NEED to get Flirting Deconstructed today.
Have you ever wanted to talk with a girl, but while you were trying to think of something to say, nothing came to mind? You even tried to think through lists of conversational topics, but couldn't focus enough to lock on to ANYTHING?
Have you ever wanted someone to slap some sense into you, because you kept reading great advice on attracting women, feeling PUMPED after reading it, like "yah that's no big deal. sweet!", but then you wake up the next day, back to your normal quiet, let-the-girl-make-the-first-move-so-you-don't-look-like-a-fool attitude?
Have you ever thought of the right thing to say AFTER the girl went away?
Have you ever tried to impress a woman, but as you talked, it seemed like she was in complete control of the conversation and treating you like a little kid?
Have you ever tried someone else's flirting lines, and had them bomb -- or at least sound very unnatural?
Have you ever tried to be cocky and funny, but just came off looking like a jerk, and felt terrible for a while, wishing you could apologize, but thinking a "real man" wouldn't do that?
Have you ever wondered how to strike the right mix of attraction, dominance, and sincere enjoyment and appreciation of the woman you're with?
Have you ever wished for a quicker wit?
I don't need to tell you whether or not you need Flirting Deconstructed. If you need it, you already know it.
There is a very good chance that this program contains THE KEY you need to have the success with women you want. And I want you to have it . . .
So you can STOP triggering bad reactions from women, and START triggering good reactions from them.
Now, let me explain . . .
Why This Program Is
Very Different From
Everything Else Out There
FIRST: Other guides "CONTAIN" some trigger-banter. They have some great lines in them. But Flirting Deconstructed actually teaches you HOW to create those lines for yourself.
This is very important, because those guides are written by other people. Those lines they tell you sound good, and they work like gangbusters for the author, but they might not work well for you, because:
They don't match your personality
They don't match the situations you typically find yourself in
They don't match the girl you're talking with NOW.
Flirting Deconstructed teaches you how to create your own banter that matches your personality, and matches the situations you typically find yourself in, and the types of women you typically flirt with.
SECOND:Flirting Deconstructed was written by an expert in PSYCHOLOGY (with a Ph.D. from a major research university). And, it was also written by an expert in ATTRACTING WOMEN, who has learned from the world's greatest pickup artists. It's the same guy. Yours truly :-D
Let's face it, most psychologists don't make great pickup artists.
And most pickup artists could use some more understanding of psychology.
I understand both worlds, and bring a wealth of deep understanding to this guide.
THIRD:The system taught in Flirting Deconstructed takes into account the way we learn. A great breakthrough in learning science occurred about 5 years ago with the publication of the book On Intelligence by Jeff Hawkins (the guy who also invented the Palm Pilot).
He deconstructed the workings of our brains and discovered exactly how we learn new skills. It has to do with the way patterns are encoded in our neocortex. It's a dynamic process that lets us start with a difficult skill, and get to the point where it is internalized and effortless.
Flirting Deconstructed allows you to learn how to flirt in an optimal way that matches the way our brains are designed to work.
And, . . .
"The Only Other Guide That Even Comes Close Costs Over $200"
A famous dating expert sells a DVD series that teaches something close to "Trigger Banter"™. It has some trigger banter in it, and some other funny flirting lines. It's quite good, actually.
However, it doesn't really break down the structure of great banter like Flirting Deconstructed does.
It gives lots of good examples -- hilarious ones, in fact -- but Flirting Deconstructed teaches you, step by step, how to create your own effective banter for ANY situation.
Plus, that DVD series costs over $200 (last I checked).
You could save up for that one. Or, today, you can get your hands on the ONLY guide that teaches you step by step how to create your own effective flirting lines for anysituation.
Flirting Deconstructed sells for $77.
However . . .
Just like I like to test different approaches with women, I like to test different prices for this book. And you are on a page that is currently selling Flirting Deconstructed for much less than $77.
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Did I mention that I'm still a computer-programming nerd at heart?
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Here's what some students of Trigger Banter have said recently:
"Hey T.P. Flirting desconstruced does actually work. I was a little shocked at first at how well it does work to be perfectly honest. I used to keep myself to myself as i was unsure of what to say or how to stat talking, but now i just get stuck in thereDirk, Swansea
"i recently bought flirting deconstructed and at first i thought "yea ok another book that will "teach" me things i dont know and i will be king super pimp,and after i read through it i started to realize that it did help me out and the first time i went to a club and used the books advice i walked out with 7 phone numbers and 3 dates. so i would highly recomend it."-Anonymous
Flirting Deconstructed helps someone like me who isn't the greatest with verbal interaction be prepared, positive, and playfull without coming off as a pervert or a predator , great work."
- roger, indiana
What up TP, the book has lots of helpful tips as well as good plots and strategies...anyone can use it. I had heard lots of things like this before, but flirting deconstructed helps put the missing pieces together, even for guys that are successful with the ladies."
"Trigger banter without a doubt is one of the best ways to attract women, ever since I started using trigger banter I've had alot of women give me a very lustfull look."
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"Hey T.P your Tringger Banter is rock my world. The ladies can't have enough of me. You make me the real player."Nat -- Melbourne, Australia
"Hey T.P. Before hearing about trigger banter I wasn't too bad with women, but i lacked to nerve to go out and say some of the forward things I wanted to say. Although the set responses your course offers aren't always what i think is best in a given situation, the principles behind what you teach have helped me to become more confident and start using my own lines more often. Great work man. Alex, Australia
"it works. nothing else needs to be said. Log, League city, TX
Yoh TP. Just a note to let you know I've started using Trigger Banter and it WORKS. I have still had a few problems but thats because I need practice which will be easy because TB has given me the confidence. Stan --Manchester UK
Hi there, never had any success with girl, I tried Trigger Banter and it has helped me overcome my shyness and awkwardness. I now have more women attracted to me through my ability to interact with women. Trigger Banter has really helped me. Great work! Bob-----Canberra, Australia
hey T.P. you guys are soo great sometimes i would get nervous around girls but now i know how to make them feel at ease and comfortable i can make a girl like me in like 3 days of just texting them over the phone thanks to you guys the girls are crazy now so thanks guys keep up the good work justin brown -- San fransico california
Trigger banter can really help. I found the initial interaction with a girl the toughest part in seducing her. Now it is much easier because you have a clear plan in your mind of what you want to say. Anonymous
Trigger Banter works, I just started trying out the few things I picked up from you, I honestly didnt think some of these corny lines would get women interested, but they do. It really works! Nick - Spokane WA
Hey i just started using it but i found it funny how well it really works. The confidence that it gives me knowing i can jump into a situation and almost always have something to say is sensed by women sometimes even before i say anything. You can catch them giving you those flirty looks which only makes it easier.Anonymous
I've only just started, so I still have a lot to learn, but so far trigger banter has got me a bit further than I usually do with women.Anonymous
"i'm happy, this was really helpful. I learned how to flirt better. David
Hey T.P. Trigger Banter really works. It helps me get women for dates. I also do feel more comfortable talking to them now more than I did. Thanks a lot!Zachary Salyer- Lebanon,Virginia
"I am just starting to use Trigger Banter but I can already see a difference in my confidence and the responses I get from women. I am beggining to get the question "Where are you from?" from women. Thanks for the tips."David Higgins -- Glenn Dale, MD
"Dear T.P., I have found that trigger banter is very effective when used correctly. You can always count on it to set a good frame for the situation, and give you an early advantage. trigger banter is the best ice breaker."JJ-raleigh NC
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I have found Trigger Banter Technique to be very effective in my daily situation management in my ongoing encounters with very attractive woman. Anonymous
OMG...T.P., You are the man! My mind has been overwhelmed by the info i recieved. and I just wanted to say thank you.
hey t.p, trigger banter has been a huge help, i can now successfully carry out a conversationjon tee- atlanta, georgia
YO T.P. Man your trigger banter is awsome. It feels good to be able to get with atleast double the girls i was going out with or whatever you wanna call it. Thanks man big huge help. Kyle Silva -------> Boston, MA